There have been times in my life when I have enjoyed mundane activities and a simple lifestyle. But the true joy of living lies in a mixture of a relaxing lifestyle along with a lot of adventures and experiences. And the past one year of my life has been exactly that. I went on a trip to Rishikesh with one of my friends in May last year, then went to Sikkim and Darjeeling with my family in June. In August and September I was having round trips to New Delhi and even had spontaneous trip to Dehradun. In December I went on a trip with my friends to Manali and Kasol, fulfilling our YJHD dreams. This year too I went on a trip to Rishikesh again with a loved one. I am back at home now but will soon be joining a company that I like, while working hard for the other dreams that I have. Along with all this travelling I engaged myself in new hobbies like Scrapbooking, embroidery, cooking and brushed up on a few of my skills like art, journalling and poetry. Incredible life arc considering that I have always loved travelling but didn't get n opportunity to travel much. I believe even small adventures in your day to day life, like learning a new skill, discovering a new spot, finding a secret stream in your area, everything brings you joy and gives you little doses of happiness that boost your morale and encourage you to keep hunting. My life has been an incredible teacher by letting me enjoy a bit and then throwing me into dungeons of disaster and heartbreak; only for me to find a glimmer of hope in the dark, and fight to follow it and emerge to a few days of sunshine and hope. But that is actually what I enjoy the most in my life. Here are a few things I have learnt in my life till date-
Trusting people is tough, especially when you know you can get hurt. But don't give up on your kindness because others have forgotten humanity.
You don't have to be a hero in everyone's story. But be a ruthless yet endearing protagonist in your own story.
Opinions of others should only matter as long as they are trying to improve you, otherwise, its smarter to ignore them.
Being victorious doesn't always mean you will be appreciated. It's important for you to appreciate yourself, learn from your mistakes and then move on.
Enjoying life is important, rather than simply living it.
Your heart finds what is meant for you. Rushing will only bring heartbreaks. But don't be scared of them 'cause they are what give you experiences and learnings.
Live with your shoulder straight and your chin up. Smile and look how easily half of your worries will disappear.
I knew a lot of these things beforehand, but still force myself into of experiencing them. My life ahead is going to be full of nuances and uncertainties in the future and that is what actually thrills me. I am scared yes, but at the same time a bit tickled pink for the fact that I don't have any idea what's in the store for me. Still not sure if anybody reads these entries, but it feels good, to have a place for myself- for thoughts hidden and unfurnished. A place for wings, fire and life. Feels good to know it isn't about being noticed, it's about noticing yourself. Feels good to know I have life rushing in my heart and in my bones and for days when I will have no idea which direction to move forward in, I'll hear my blood and bones and heart call out my name and bring me to my destiny!

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